People try so hard to make relations perfect but alas ! they fail and thus it makes a lot of fuss. though this was not supposed to be my second blog but i just had a chit chat with my old friend A.G. and then only I found that how complicated we make our life in order to achieve the peace in relations.
Lets start with the immediate family members. there were times when children din't have courage to face their father and nowdays fathers don't want their children around. "they want them to be happy" fine but who filled in their mind that happiness is in staying away.
I was goingn through some confession on a page and there was this confession telling about a mother who was angry on a five year old because it interrupted her leisure time. one of my relative doesn't want their family around because they will break their fix schedule and it might affect their peaceful life.
Siblings avoid to visit each other because it will look bad and will harm their status if they don't spend enough money on them or exchange the gifts. People now calculate the post effect of the words they are going to speak and then decide whether to speak or stay silent.
AND all of this fuss is incomplete without your spouse. after marriage suddenly everyone become so knowledgeble and mature that people start making decisions on themselves. for once who did not even know how to make chapati now suggest the healthy diet. Okay fine people change with time but this overnight drastic change......seriously?????
Lets start with the immediate family members. there were times when children din't have courage to face their father and nowdays fathers don't want their children around. "they want them to be happy" fine but who filled in their mind that happiness is in staying away.
I was goingn through some confession on a page and there was this confession telling about a mother who was angry on a five year old because it interrupted her leisure time. one of my relative doesn't want their family around because they will break their fix schedule and it might affect their peaceful life.
Siblings avoid to visit each other because it will look bad and will harm their status if they don't spend enough money on them or exchange the gifts. People now calculate the post effect of the words they are going to speak and then decide whether to speak or stay silent.
AND all of this fuss is incomplete without your spouse. after marriage suddenly everyone become so knowledgeble and mature that people start making decisions on themselves. for once who did not even know how to make chapati now suggest the healthy diet. Okay fine people change with time but this overnight drastic change......seriously?????
